Bear411 Fun

[daddytodd]

Bear411 profile quote: "Don't bother writing if your going to call me boy, boi, pup, son, and kiddo. Newly added word I hate is sport."

OK, how about "asshole?"

Another Bear411 profile quote: "Not looking to meet any one for sex I have someone for that and alot more. His profile on here is XXXXX, Come on guys show a little respect. Taken means NOT LOOKING for any thing more than friends."

In what sense is it "disrespectful" to hit upon someone who has his profile posted on a hook-up site? What am I not getting here?

Comments

[kymutt.livejournal.com]

I have chatted quite a bit on bear411. I agree with a few points, especially the 'just friends with nudes' profiles. As far as the daddy/boy thing...I don't mind it if it's someone I feel has earned the right to call me that. But if the first thing a person says to me is boy, they're gonna get a kind rebuttal. Okay, so I'm ramblin', but I think you get my point. If not, catch me later.

[daddytodd.livejournal.com]

At the risk of stating the obvious, calling a black man "boy" is problematic on several levels. I made sure to get your permission before using the "b" word with you.

I do get your point, handsome! Like I already said, I think leading off with "boy" is inappropriate unless the profile specifically and unambiguously requests it.