Bear411 Fun
Dec. 28th, 2005 09:52 amBear411 profile quote: "Don't bother writing if your going to call me boy, boi, pup, son, and kiddo. Newly added word I hate is sport."
OK, how about "asshole?"
Another Bear411 profile quote: "Not looking to meet any one for sex I have someone for that and alot more. His profile on here is XXXXX, Come on guys show a little respect. Taken means NOT LOOKING for any thing more than friends."
In what sense is it "disrespectful" to hit upon someone who has his profile posted on a hook-up site? What am I not getting here?
OK, how about "asshole?"
Another Bear411 profile quote: "Not looking to meet any one for sex I have someone for that and alot more. His profile on here is XXXXX, Come on guys show a little respect. Taken means NOT LOOKING for any thing more than friends."
In what sense is it "disrespectful" to hit upon someone who has his profile posted on a hook-up site? What am I not getting here?
AND WHY????
Date: 2005-12-29 12:07 am (UTC)And why is ANYONE still obtuse enough to say "straight-acting" when masculine will do?
And in some defense, I am not really "looking" to hook up, but I don't rule out it happening either. In fact, most of the other men I talk to are other widowers. I met my current boyfriend there, and we met face to face in July after chatting for about a month.
I am not offended by being hit on, because it hapens in person too, and I am not locking myself away from real life just to avoid potential sexual contact. If I really intended to maintain a monogamous relationship or intend to never get hit on, I would quit Bear411 and Bearwww, start a Gay Widowers group in Yahoo, and quit going out and stop flirting all together.
I refuse to stop flirting. It is one of my best skills!
Re: AND WHY????
Date: 2005-12-29 12:21 am (UTC)Fantasies are best when you know the good parts, but not everything... :)